Anger and fear: do I bow down to it?

Avec : Shaul Judelman
anger fear surrender violence

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I remember watching how much anger votes for me.

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And there is a thing in the
Talmud and the Jewish oral tradition

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that says: "kol ha'koes,
k'ilu oveid avoda zara."

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One who gets angry, it's as if
they are bowing down to a stone.

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It's like idolatry.

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I remember sitting and thinking

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about the thing about my own
anger and watching

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how much anger votes for me,
chooses how I see people,

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relate to people and questioning
what do with it, you know.

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Where does it go?
And fear, and thinking about the fear.

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I have a very simple
psychological mathematics:

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Anger plus fear equals hatred.

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But does it control me
or do I bow down to it?

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Do I let it be my God?
And there's another way, there's another.

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But it's very powerful.
And I think many of us it comes up

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and it comes up and it's very easy
for me to go to violence

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into this and violence either
in how we think and how we act

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or also even act
to make acts of violence.