You cannot reverse what was done

Avec : Robert Enright

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Justice, injustice and forgiveness
all fit together in this way.

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When we've been treated unjustly

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and something that was permanent

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let's say there's a murder
of someone's child,

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you cannot reverse that.

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But what you can reverse is
the effects of that on you

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and on your relationships,
on your family.

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One cannot bring the child back.

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But what someone can do is
get rid of the resentment

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that can lead to depression,
anxiety and hopelessness.

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Because forgiveness targets
that particular malady

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if you will which is a resentment
that won't leave.

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Also when a person begins to
exercise the virtue of forgiveness

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they realize that
there are many virtues

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that are worth appropriating.

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There are many virtues
that are worth developing

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and people naturally tend
to bring justice alongside

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the quest for forgiveness.

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You see forgiveness
is not a weak response.

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You stand in the pain and give
goodness to the one who hurt you.

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And at the same time

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you ask something
of the one who hurt you.

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You cannot reverse the injustice

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but you can ask
for justice going forward

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and be healed of that
which literally can kill a person.