Hearing two sides of a story brings a softening
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- When we listen to the others, we develop a softening attitude toward them.
Résumé
What happen when you bring a Palestinian and Israeli to talk to UK students?
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The vast majority of the
students it is the first time
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that they have met
someone Israeli
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and or someone Palestinian.
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So for them it's definitely
a transforming experience.
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And one of the main
reasons for this is because
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all of us of course over here
mainly see information about
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the Israeli-Palestinian
conflict in the news
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in the media and on social media.
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And that's inevitably limiting
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and pretty much every
media outlet
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whether it's mainstream or social
media has some kind of opinions.
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It has some kind of bias.
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In social media people tend
to be in this echo chamber
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on Twitter or whatever where
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or on Facebook where they have
their friends who agree with what
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they already think
or posting the same information
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which reinforces what
they were already thinking.
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So you've got that element.
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And then you've got
the mainstream media
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who depending on if they're
left wing or right wing
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and this is what I mean by
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people making this issue not necessarily
really about Israel Palestine
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but about their own worldview
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whether it be left wing
or right wing or whatever.
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So you see the mainstream media
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pushing more of a left wing
approach or right wing approach
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using this issue as a badge of like
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a credential for their
political positioning.
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And this is the prism that
all these young people see
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the issue through.
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So then they meet ordinary people
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who talk about their
childhoods and talk about
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growing up just like them but
obviously with some differences
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that need to be addressed for
the future in terms of the conflict.
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And the other it's just a whole
new experience for them.
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What we tend to see is that
if people come in
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supporting one side against the other
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thinking basically there's
one side that's got to win,
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the other side should lose,
one side's right, one side's wrong,
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they tend to come out of the
session questioning that idea.
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They see it more,
there's a humanizing element
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to the session which helps them
to see it more as ordinary people
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not just armies and governments.
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But we've had a lot on our
feedback forms we use,
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we have a lot of response
from students saying you know
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I'm still more pro this
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but I'm where I've heard
the other side now.
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I'm willing to listen to the other
side, that kind of softening attitude.